How can i stop from moving too fast in my relationship?

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I've been with my boyfriend now for a little over 6 months, we've been through so much and are so close. Problem? I feel like i want to move too fast, every part of me just wants to be with him, marry him, buy a house with him, have a family etc but its too soon for any of that and its so hard waiting. Im usually a really patient person but waiting years before we get married sounds like torture. We're both in uni and we agree that its best to save everything till after we graduate, but i dont graduate till im around 24, thats 5 more years >.< Is there anyway to make this easier to deal with? Ways to make the time less daunting or help me just take it a day at a time instead of counting down till it happens?

Jhonny · Accepted Answer

Nope. And don't rush it either. Nothing like a trend of boys and girls getting into marriage and breaking up so quick. Take it easy :) You working on your studies so you can have a future with your boy is the most important thing right now. You can do whatever since you're old enough, go out and have some fun, drink, go partying, go travel and so on. Just remember, even if your boy is a cool cat, if you rush it he may take it as a bad thing. Take it easy, no need to be fast or slow. Just go with the speed you're at and make sure to learn to solve problems for both of you when troubles come. Best of luck. ;)

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How can i stop from moving too fast in my relationship?

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