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What am I doing wrong with this girl I love?

We're both 19 studying to go to medical school. She's a socially awkward quiet girl but I see the bubbly side of her too. I love her. She likes me too deep down. I am nice to her, raise her self-esteem, try showing her how much of a great person she is and how I care about her. She supposedly is insecure and has self-esteem issues and largely follows her friends.

This is main problem-her friends hate me(calling me creep, etc.) She goes along with them. Do you think she believes it deep down and have I went wrong being a mature,nice guy with her? Will she come to me in future because right now she is starting to ignore me because of her friends. I tried telling her that she's a very unique and different girl that I liked. Her friends are immature partying girls.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Talk to her about how you feel, how she's important to you and you won't judge her. U think she's perfect how she is. Then leave her alone until she comes back to u

  • 9 years ago

    Don't be too clingy and stop telling her u like her so much. Let her come to u and tell u how she feels (she already knows how U feel) and don't pay attention to her friends they seem like losers anyway

  • 9 years ago

    Let go. Chances are that once she see's you don't care anymore she's going to want you back, and if that doesn't work well, you already let go.

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