would you date her if you knew this..............?

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my best friend in the whole world had been really big all her life .. in terms of weight i mean. she has the most beautiful looking face like a china doll with full lips and long almond shaped eyes.. she has the best personality too... the thing is growing up with her she always ad trouble dating guys in high school.. she never dated but everyone was her friend cus she was just plain awesome..lol.... anyways we are in out 20's now and she was still a big girl.. i know she would not like me telling her exact weight and im the only one who knows but i will level it off to about 300 maybe a little more but is she ever tall shes 5'10 so shes portioned really well.. anyways she wanted something that would be permanent cus everything she tried in terms of dieting and gymming just didn't help.. and i know i was with her the whole time.. she went in for weight loss surgery.. it was the sleeve gastro-mectomy thing where only 1/3rd of her stomach is left.. she lost 60% of her weight and not she looks AMAZING... im sorry this is long but what i wanted to know from guys out there... would you date a beautiful women who needed a little( "surgical help" as she puts it) .. i mean i have known her all my life and its not like she eats crap ... she hates sugar lol and salty / spicey food ... and she loved salads she was just bigger naturally ... but seeing beauty ( im sorry i dont have a pic cus i know it would make her feel a bit off but think of a much lighter skin toned version of kimora lee simmons) knowing this .. would you guys be okay with dating a woman like that.....

i tell her that any guy would love her no matter what but she feels a little embarrassed about the surgery thing...even though she looks good.. some help please? thnx.......

 i have posted this in friends aswell thnkzzz

? · Accepted Answer

I have no problem with that....I have a friend that went thru the same thing....I liked her when she ws 300 ....but now shes like 145 and looks gorgeous....she lives in another state...if she lived here and was single Id date her .....shes gorgeous inside n out to me

Pretty Maggie Money Eyes · Answer

That will not hurt her at all when she looks for men to have relationships with unless the man is very shallow and cares about all of her extra skin from the extreme weight loss. In that case, it wouldn't be a loss to her anyway. It would be his.

Tepee · Answer

Having a surgical procedure to help her lose weight shouldn't have any negative effects to her ability to have a relationship.  The key thing is that she took whatever steps she felt necessary to reduce her size and feel better about herself.   I applaud your efforts to help her maintain her self-esteem.  Her responsibility now is to continue to follow her regimen so her former weight doesn't return.  I wish her every success.

Anonymous · Answer

Skip waiting bedrooms. When you have an consultation, check in and then head out for a walk until the actual receptionist phones you.

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Tour a winery instead involving just buying another bottle.

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Take a lap around the grocery store prior to starting shopping.

Anonymous · Answer

Skip waiting rooms. When you have an session, check in and then go for a walk until your receptionist phones you.

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Take a lap around the grocery store before you begin shopping.

Anonymous · Answer

Paint your own toe-nails rather then sitting for a pedicure.

Jacob · Answer

Wouldn't be a problem to most guys I think.

would you date her if you knew this..............?

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