I am an Atheist, now what?

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Mkay. Now that I've got your attention. I know this is the wrong section, but I need some opinions. :) 
I was complaining to my fwb about my new school, and instead of sympathy he told me "I told you so." and when I said I don't care to hear him be a douche he said "Shut up, don't text me if you're not interested in what I have to say." 
Then I confronted him over the phone about him being just rude, (he's a freshman in college) and he said I wasn't allowed to call him and chew him out anymore. We aren't in a relationship, and he doesn't want to hear me complain about sh*t. BUT, he still wants to have sex over Christmas break! 
So, we are no longer speaking. It's been three days and I know I will hear from him and he'll try to make me feel guilty about me not going to see him. What is the best strategy to get my point across, but not seem like total female dog?
Might I add, we have had four texting conversations in the past three weeks, so I haven't been pestering the heck out of him.

Thank you.

? · Accepted Answer

God did it.

? · Answer

Boy, I am glad I am not that guy. 

If you wanted serious answers, you should have posted in the appropriate category, mrs. Female Dog.

? · Answer

Depends on what you want.
If you don't want him to take advantage of you in a sexual way, without giving you a shoulder to lean on or whine on, or both, then tell him to fu*k off for good.

If you want him to be your boyfriend with the whole package, i suggest you talk to him about it.

If you are ok with the "sex - yes, but don't get on my nerves" thing then - woof.

If you just want him to be more considerate and supporting well, go and tell him that, in a calm but assertive way, then depending on his reaction you can see what happens next.

good luck.

Btw i really don't understand why you would put this in RS

Anonymous · Answer

Why didn't you just put this in the right category? That would make a helluva lot more sense.

apple juice · Answer

Don't go near the dude anymore. You don't deserve that kind of treatment.  Eventually you will find someone who respects you and loves you for who you are. I can guarantee it. You are
Selling yourself short. Find someone else. Give that to yourself this Christmas. The freedom from someone who treats you like crap. You are better then that.

Dave · Answer

He's your fwb not your boyfriend.... what did you expect? Obviously he's only interested in one aspect of your life. Other than the piece of *** your offering him he could probably careless about anything you have to offer or say, pretty evident.

? · Answer

Troll

? · Answer

I think that maybe if we all wrote a letter to the congressman, they'd give us more damn miracle grow. the fields are too damn dry!

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like you two should change it from "fwb" to just "b". You don't have to be friends to bang each other.

? · Answer

That guy is a total as*hole, and I don't understand why you contact him at all.  Stop keeping your standards so low; he's a dick who just wants to f*ck you.  He doesn't give a **** about you or your problems.  He's thinking with his schlong.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, if he told you so, he told you so. Stop bitching, and start considering what the hell you're typing. Also, where you're typing.

I am an Atheist, now what?

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