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What should my strategy be?
Mkay. I know this is the wrong section, but I need some opinions.
I was complaining to my fwb about my new school, and instead of sympathy he told me "I told you so." and when I said I don't care to hear him be a douche he said "Shut up, don't text me if you're not interested in what I have to say."
Then I confronted him over the phone about him being just rude, (he's a freshman in college) and he said I wasn't allowed to call him and chew him out anymore. We aren't in a relationship, and he doesn't want to hear me complain about sh*t. BUT, he still wants to have sex over Christmas break!
So, we are no longer speaking. It's been three days and I know I will hear from him and he'll try to make me feel guilty about me not going to see him. What is the best strategy to get my point across, but not seem like total female dog?
Might I add, we have had four texting conversations in the past three weeks, so I haven't been pestering the heck out of him.
Thank you.
1 Answer
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
From this, I'm guessing that he is a man of few words, yet is also arrogant and on the narcissistic side. I, personally, would not want to be around such a person because he is, as you said, a douche. Why give yourself to a guy that doesn't want to hear your problems? It would be more understandable for him to say that if you constantly complained but idk if you do. If you complain constantly or regularly asked for his advice but didn't take it, I'd definitely be siding with him. It seems like he's only interested in you as a sex object just by reading this. Don't hang around him too much. :/ Hope you take the advice!