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What do I do about this girl?

I really liked this girl, and this girl really liked me. I was too nervous to do anything about it though. We now go to separate colleges and I think about her everyday, and realize what I had just missed out on. This was not a normal crush, it was pretty deep, not a fling.

My question is would she have moved on quickly or will she still have feelings for me? I will be seeing her soon. I don't cling onto the past, I'm just saying that she was a special girl. A lot of people tell me to fu*k around because this is college and so many girls are interested in me but I want to save myself for a good relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    It depends, but you won't know until you see her in person. If it seems like she may have feelings for you still, then you could try asking her out, but it depends on if she's willing to have a long distance relationship too.

    It doesn't matter what other people say, listen to what you think is important, because from what you've said about your morals, you've got a good head on your shoulders. Don't change that.

    Besides, the girls/guys that have random hook-ups with people, aren't the ones you want to stick with in the end, anyways.

    I say, if you know you both feel the same way about each other when you see her, then don't let that chance pass and let her be "The one that got away..."

    Take a chance, and even if it doesn't work out, at least you know you tried, and there are no regrets for not putting your feelings out there and wondering what could have happened, versus, what didn't.

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