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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 10 years ago

Help on bad outbursts with my sister..?

I have a twin sister who has recently turned 19 a month ago. For a while now, she has had big out bursts kicking of with myself, my other sister my mum and my brother. We have been raised in a good way but now all she does is drinks. She swears all the time infront of my little brother. I would never of thought she would have the audasity to do this. Today, she kicked off over some ciggarets and screams, swears tells my mum to shut up. My mum told her to be quiet and she kept telling my mum no. This i would never do to my mum. My mum lets her not pay rent so she could afford to go on holiday. She washes her clothes. My mum does everything for her and this is how she repays her. We are all very nice to her but it seems that we can never do right for her. It is causing us all stress and making my mum become ill. I have told her she has anger problems but she just brushes it off her shoulders. Someone please give me advice.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    she needs an intervention

  • 10 years ago

    she does it because she is aloud to. when you've got it so good why would you make an attempt to change what suits you. seems to me that your family is going to have to demonstrate a dose of tough love. stop doing things for her, make her pay rent, and let her know that her childish outbursts won't be tolerated. it's time for her to learn to conduct herself as an adult and become a civilized person to Society but more importantly her family

  • 10 years ago

    Hold up the mirror - it's like comedy, and so timing is important too...., let her brush herself off with the same regard, if she can.

  • 10 years ago

    throw her out... no that's too harsh. why don't you all force her to get a job and make her live in her own flat?

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    tell them

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