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Imani
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Imani asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 10 years ago

How to deal with Swinging Sister..?

My sister and her husband have decided to have sex with other people. While my husband and I are not hardcore christians, we do believe that what they are doing is wrong on a million levels. We own a house that has 2 apartments, we live in one, they live in the other. Up until we found out what they were doing ( a week after their decision) we were all very close, and had a good relationship. Their kids were always at our house playing, we spent our evenings together, we were like best friends Now, I can't stand to be around either one of them, and neither can my husband. I don't want to judge them too harshly, so I haven't, but I can't bring myself to continue the way we were as a family. I have told them that I think what they're doing is wrong and believe that's all I can do. What do I do now? There is no way that I can be as close to them as we were, and I don't think that I'll ever be able to see them as 'friends' again. I cannot accept this horrible thing they're doing to each other as 'part' of who they are. Am I wrong to want to disconnect from them? Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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  • 10 years ago
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    hopefully your sister will realize you have much reason to be so put off. that doesnt mean they'll stop doing it, both her and her husband seem to have looser morals and the best thing for everyone would be for them to find a new place to reside.

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