what is goin on here?

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i know my husband had an affair with this woman because i caught him at her house. that was a long time ago, we got past it and ,stayed with our marriage. her kids and my kids are all grown . my husband recently told me That her son sometimes works odd jobs with him.  well i said that okey cause i don't blame any one kids for the parents mistakes. just recently he took me to her house for Business he performed for her son. she and i talked  i was calm and christian like concerning the incident. he told me that it didn't matter to him what she and i talked about in a private room. NOW JUST WHAT IS ON HIS MIND AND HERS . she told me that they were always just friends but i looked into her eyes and saw deep emotional signs.  i thought that we were over this hurdle. why did he want us to see each other.  please only people with mature answers. please  thank you

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Look don't try to bring up something that maybe is over 
what if she still has emotions for your husband ? that doesn't mean he has them to 
in a  good marriage you need to trust that person,and if he doesn't care what you 2 talked about,well honestly i think he doesn't care what happened in the past 
don't be dramatic over it but be cautious ;) try to trust your husband
but also try to open your eyes if you see anything weird going on
honesty in a relationship is very important,next time something about that bothers you try to talk it over with your husband,your not kids anymore.

Sunflower2 · Answer

Nobody else knows what anyone else is thinking, they can only speculate, and no one else knows how anyone else feels.

what is goin on here?

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