Why do men fall out of love with me after several years?

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I've had several long term relationships.  They pursue me and make me feel like I mean the world to them.  We move in together after a year or so of dating and then a few years later they change.  I don't change.  I'm still a loving person that wants to be loved.  I don't even nag them to do stuff around the house.  All I want is to be treated lovingly and not ignored while he goes out all the time without me.  I'm really tired of trying so hard to make a relationship work.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Be lucky you can have a relationship. many people cannot get anyone. 

Just try something different...if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got.

? · Answer

If you love him madly, give him a chance to prove he has changed. Everyone deserves a second chance, just not a third or fourth. We all do things that we are not proud of in life, some are just a little more extreme but it doesnt mean he is a bad person UNLESS it was a straight out abusive crime such as rape or molestation. You have to decide yourself what is unforgivable and if his crime is forgivable in your books and you think its possible he has left that behind and you are not feeling in danger, give him the benefit of the doubt.. you do love him. Just make sure you and your family are safe and do your research on his crime and his ability to reform.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes men likes change!  something new and interesting that keeps them up in their toes.  You give yourself but not totally yourself.  Men don't like nagging, but they also like to have someone to be in control.  You love them but you also don't want them to walk all over you.  it's ok to let your feelings known.  If you want your man to do chores you let him know.  Don't be a clingy, you kiss him and then release him and know that he will come back to you anyway.

Why do men fall out of love with me after several years?

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