For the married men do you think your wife has the right to be pissed off?.?

Yes she has the right but there is some common ground to be met she probably wants intimacy. It just not what us men call intimacy or four play in order for you to get you some. I have the same problem with my wife. They think of it as if your still cheating because through porn you may be fantasing about someone else.

Here's what I believe and I do want to warn you, this is my thoughts and I'm neither right or wrong.

I feel if a wife is not fulfilling her end of the sexual relations due to whatever reason (and their could be legit reasons, such as lack of hormones, weight gain, sickness/health, stress/anxiety/depression, etc.) then a man turning to porn to release his own sexual desires is not wrong at all. In fact, I do it all the time. We'll, not every day/night. Their are times I might turn to porn for release 2-3 times in a week and then, go a week or 10 days without.

I also believe you need to get to the bottom of the source and find out what the issue is with your wife. It could be just pure lack of communication, but on the other hand, it could be more serious (health) or mental. If you guys can't talk to each other and communicate, then I highly suggest you get into marital counceling if your marriage is worth saving. Sex is not everything, but I believe its a very important part of life.

On the first place, your wife should seek medical advice, because of her loss of sexual appetite, there could be an actual reason why she doesn't want to have sex no more, if this issue gets resolve you can go back and be a happy man.

We are men and we do require sexual attention in some way, because its normal and that's our procreation behavior, its not that we are perverts, but our body requires us to be this way, by the production of testosterone and other hormones. So I think that if you watch porn, it would not be a problem at all, and you wife should not get mad (even though she still will, because i know you will get mad if you caught HER looking at other mans penises on the internet, because its a normal jealousy behavior that we humans have)

The advice here is, your wife should visit her gynecologist, to see why she has lost her sexual appetite, maybe she is not producing enough hormones to get her on the mood.

i am in the same position w/ my husband, so please hear me out and hear a girsl point of view:

my husband and i used to always be on the same page as far as intimacy goes. in the past 6 months i have had some health probles, and surgery. so basiclly our sex life has gone down the drain. The other day i was cleaning out the computer and found a ton of porn downloaded on the computer.

at first i was really angry, i have always been a firm beleiver that porn was horrible, and it was against everyting i beleived in. so, after i got over being angry i became betrayed.

When I confronted my husband about it, I could tell that he felt really bad; but it wasnt because he watched it, it was because he didnt think about how I would feel if I ever found out. He also explained that he was having a hard time w/ me being sick, and missed what we used to do.

So, the result is that I am now not angry, but I am still not a fan. I think if it is something you want to do, your spouse needs to know about it. she needs to know that this is what you need; and you understand if she doesnt want to provide it. and with you giving her that respect, she needs to give you the respect of what you need as well.

marriages only work if you go in it w/ 100% honesty 100% of the time!

I am a married woman and if I didn't give my husband enough attention in the bedroom (which has happened with 3 pregnancies) I have no right (in my opinion) to get upset if my husband wants to watch porn and/or jack-off. It actually turns me on to think of my husband doing it; which in return helps him out!

I would try and figure out why you are not getting any from her - let her know that as soon as she can give you "her reasoning" for not wanting to be sexual and she tries to work on it, then you will stop the porn thing. Ya know what I mean?!

Good Luck!

Do what you gotta do for release. I'm more concerned about your future than present. You and your wife need to work out the issues of why she doesn't want relations. As you know, that's not a healthy relationship. If this persist and you love each other, you may need counseling on why she is so angry that she does not want to be with you physically. A lot of times the relationship fails if one is so unhappy that they start pulling away emotionally, physically, and mentally

Well, I can't tell the whole situation from your question. But in my opinion you need to stop touching yourself and go figure out why your wife won't sleep with you. A lot of times with women, it's an emotional reason holding them back. Are you guys intimate in daily life besides sex? Do you kiss? Tell her you love her? She may be feeling like you're distant right now. When you go and jack off instead of figuring out what's wrong with her and your relationship, she gets more pissed off (and under that is really just hurt.)

Are you looking to see if there are any more transvestites out there who agree with you? Isn't this pretty much the same question you asked last time?You know , the one where the tranny Violist was chosen as best answer because you are so much alike..bwhaahahahaha

So what is the question, is it ok to be turned on by seeing people have sex? C'mon , unless you have issues and / or a bad experience from your past how can you not?

OK - she's upset because you are looking at the porn. Unless your wife is a porn star, you're not looking at her. Unless you are thinking about her, or asking her to help you, she's going to be upset. More important, you should both address why there are no sexual relations - not why she's upset.

She shouldn't be pissed off. If she is not doesn't want to have sexual relations with you, for any reason, she should understand that men have needs. A good husband would never cheat on his wife, even if she is not intimate with him. Masturbation is not cheating, even if you are watching porn.