I Need Help!, I Love My Boyfriend and take care of him, but what does he do for me?

Question

I feel scared, idk why. I've been dating my guy for about 5 months 6 if you count the whole month he wasnt here and we were talkin, well when he came back at the end of november we have spent everyday together, i loved it in the begging he was my first fully all the way guy and it was awesome, after that we would do it alot like every other day then he started staying the night then we thought about moving in together so we did we moved in at then end of jan andeverything has been going great, but we kinda stopped having sex, i asked him why he said cause he doesnt want it to get boring and to much can ruin a relationship but i told him not enough and ruin it, well i moved on after that i just thought it was me like he didnt find me sexy anymore. but now that we live together he said he would take care of me he said he'll always be there for me but im the only one working, i work nights 6pm 4am so when i get home shouldn't he be asking me how i feel and if i want anything to eat should

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shouldnt he be taking care of me. he just sits and play video games all night and he sits there and says im hungry can you make me somthing when yet the trash is still full and before i left i said please take it out so then i have to do it and then he gets mad cause im doing it and he says i was gonna do it, oh yea when in seven days., i mean all i want is for someone to take care of me fill my needs and sexually needs is that so hard i do it for him everysingle day, when is it my turn...it breaks my heart i feel like he's slave i dont feel loved by him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i think u just answered ur own ? sweetie i think u should move out or talk to him about this ******** cuz that is dumb if ur doin everything and gettin nothin back especailly sex at least thats sad =[ good luck tho

sanddune · Answer

A relationship must always be a  two-way street.  I think that you should get some counseling so that you will learn what being in a positive, happy relationship is supposed to be.  Then you can make a decision about what you want to do.  It isn't healthy from the way you have described what's going on.  Never be so needy that you lose your self-respect and dignity.  Go with your gut feeling.   The fact that you feel something is wrong proves that things are not right.  A loving relationship should make you feel happy, not sad.  Please get some counseling.  Good luck.

slove23 · Answer

you guys definitely rushed this. In order to keep guys intrested you need to keep them wanting more, but you just gave it all to him. he said it himself, he doesnt want to get bored, and im sure he already is. You need to give him space and if possible move out if you want this relationship to survive. Im not sure how old you are, but you cant be too old if he still plays with video games religiously. Ive been with my bf for over 2 years and im here at home doing my thing,and he's at his house doing his. it keeps things intresting and healthy. you need to grow as individuals if you want to grow as a couple.

I Need Help!, I Love My Boyfriend and take care of him, but what does he do for me?

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