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Ladies, do you ever ask men out, Why?

It may be because I was born and raised in the south that I have never asked a man out. What is the usual outcome? How does it make you feel?

Update:

If you have asked a man out, what is it that compelled you to take that route?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    hell no girls in the north dont do it either

    its degrading the guys has to do it!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Most definately! I used to believe that was part of the guy's job but I started thinking, "why wait if I like someone?" The first guy I asked out I got rejected but everytime past that it has worked! I think men now-a-days kind of like a woman who can take charge and make bold moves on her own. But there's always a fine line between assertive and psychotic.

  • 1 decade ago

    I initiated a lot of the relationships I've had. Sometimes men are just too clueless to know that you like them and want to date. I never felt ashamed or easy or any of those things. I felt stronger and in control of my life. I just hate waiting around for some fool to notice me, ya know?

  • 1 decade ago

    a lot of women who ask men out is because they get tired of the guy waiting to ask. but the results are mixed. some guys like it because it shows the women aren't shy and that they are outgoing. but some guys don't like it because they think that it is the gutys job to ask the girl out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I've only asked a guy out when i know for sure he's into me. It makes me feel uncomfortable otherwise.

  • 1 decade ago

    No, I am way too nervous b/c im only 13. But almost all my friends have boyfriends and it kinda makes me feel sad...ok it REALLY makes me feel sad.

    Take care.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Of course!!! Because who wants to wait around for the dummy to get a clue. If you want something GO GET IT!!!

    Guys love it too.

  • Sarah
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I have never and most likely won't lol. I'm to chicken. I prefer the old fashioned way. :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i have when i was younger

    in the circle i hung out with it was an acceptable practice

  • 1 decade ago

    no they are supposed to ask you out

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