someone please tell me that they have a good marriage.?

I feel that way too! My hubby and I had an absolutely incredible marriage based on trust, love, dignity, integrity,

and respect for each other. Maybe because we met in our 30's and were tired of all the b.s. out there and knew what

we wanted and knew when we found it. We were the couple that other people said things about like, "You two are so sweet to each other I could just puke."--but they meant it in

a good way. We didn't fight or argue. It was all about just

being with the person who brought out the best in you. We

were the two happiest people I knew, until he died suddenly

in May 2005, of a heart attack, playing tennis, at age 45. No

warning, no nothing. I have felt like half of me is missing

ever since then and know I will never be the person I was before he died. It is a feeling I wouldn't wish on my worst

enemy.

I do. But don't ejxpect to see lots of questions about good marriages. Its not necessary. Sure there might be some, what should I do to surprise my spouse things. But over all there isn't much to ask about. How would it sound.

I have been married to a great gal for 19 years. We both treat each other with great respect and try to consider our partners needs and feelings every day. What should I do about it?

Not much of a question is it. Don't worry that all you hear are the bad questions, its because the good ones are answered by themselves.

I have a a wonderful marriage, Don't base anything on what you read on here, most of it is made up, deranged people or people who really need help and advice, however you will never see happy married couples on here for help and advice because they do not need it so what you are seeing is not the majority

I too have a wonderful marriage... It IS my 2nd marriage.. but to be honest, my first marriage wasn't that bad.. I just fell out of love.... or maybe I was never truly in love the first time... I think I got it right this time though..

I do, married 22 years, known him 25 and he is still the love of my life and we still act like kids on love, holding hands, going on dates, etc. There are good marriages out there.

Yup. I do.

Oh, it wasn't always. And we went through a lot of hard stuff about five years ago. But I'm proud to say that she and I would rather be at home, together, than anywhere else in the world.

I have a great marriage, almost 20 years.

Married almost 25 years here. Things are still good. Cheer up!

What do expect to read here?

"Hello, been married for N years, and I was wondering how many hugs and snuggles I should give daily?"

i sure hope so i think people are just to lazy to work on it they'd rather take easy way out and just divorce.