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What would you do if you were me? Please suggest me something?
I've been working with this girl for about two months...and i never really talked to her about her personal life, neither did she ever talk to me about my personal life...but i love her personality. She's not one of those girls that come an go. It's really hard to find such nice girls. Two weeks ago i found out that she was asking my boss some questions about me..and my boss' toughts were that this girl kinda likes me..but what's more interesting is that i like her since the first week i started working with her. Now the problem is that i can't expess my feelings towards her, and if i do express my feelings to her then i don't know what her response would be like...please give me some suggestions..and what would you do if you were me?
4 Answers
- will_o_the_westLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Before you go too far, do you know what your boss would think about his or her workers having a relationship? Your boss might want to keep you apart at work. And what would work be like, down the line, if you and your new girlfriend have a fight or get angry at each other?
If you've already considered those aspects and still want to pursue her, then go slowly. Start by sitting with her on your breaks and talking about something neutral -- anything at all, like the Harry Potter craze or the weather. You can also talk about your own family and best friends, as that may get her to open up too. As she talks, you'll get a better sense of her outside interests, her life away from work. It'd be good if you share the same interests and values, of course.
After a week or two of talking on breaks, you could ask if she wants to go somewhere outside for lunch, just for the change. And after that, if it goes okay, you could ask if she'd like to go for a coffee or beer after work someday. After, if you still get the green light, ask her out for a real date.
- Dana ALv 61 decade ago
Well, I don't see what would be wrong to engage her in light conversation, and find out more about her. Usually people give off signals when they are interested in you, in terms of body language and facial expressions.
I don't see what you have to lose by talking to her or asking her out. Don't be too serious with her or profess that you're in love or anything, cause it will scare her off.
Good luck,
Dana
- 1 decade ago
I think you should just talk to her and slowly ask her to go with you !!! Who knows if you like her and it seems like she likes you then hey something good might be in store for you!!!!!! Just ask her out !!!!! Good luck!