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Early 40's friend recovering from radical mastectomy. Song suggestions to say "You're loved & you can do it!"?
My friend is in her early forties. She's a kind, loving, beautiful former ballerina and mother of two. She was diagnosed with breast cancer recently, and had to have both breasts removed last week. She is nervous, as her docs have said they won't be sure for a year if they got all the cancer. She is not vain, but understandably when one's life has been so committed to ballet, fitness and "perfection," it is especially devastating to lose her breasts.
Instead of just sending flowers or a card, I am making her a mix CD of uplifting songs from the 70s-90s. I am only one person, so I'm asking you all if you can think of any unique and mellow songs that emphasize strength, beauty, endurance and peace. She's not religious, but is very spirituaI.
I've already selected: Ooh Child, Angel, Tiny Dancer, Lovely Day, Solitude Standing, Candlelight, Smile, Full Of Grace, If You Want To Sing Out, Life Is The Red Wagon, Calling All Angels, Thousand Year Prayer.
Thanks, all! :)
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i'm every woman: chaka khan (rufus) you can't help but dance to that and be uplifted.
i'm coming out: diana ross...she needs to here positive songs, and i think this song is perfect because her life has changed and to look at it in a postive way will help her to focus and become positive about the changes she must go through.
video: india aire...this song has an awesome message. i think it's perfect for what you're trying to accomplish.
if i think of more i'll add them on to my response.
i just wanted to tell you that your friend is lucky to have you in her life. i'm sure your hard work will not be in vain. good luck with your project!!! =)
- 1 decade ago
How about Gloria Estefans coming out of the dark, or an oldie like Helen Reddys I am woman(thats a great lifter upper). You are so beautiful to me, the 70's have great songs for women. Go to songs of 70s web site, and you will find lots. Good luck and God bless you for being such a great caring friend.
- 1 decade ago
Dolly Parton - I Will Always Love You
That Hawaiian Guy (Israel something) - Somwhere Over the Rainbow
Celine Dion - Love Is On the Way
- 1 decade ago
I Am Woman (by Helen Reddy). This is particularly important as a mantra for her to hear. When my mother had her mastectomy, she didn't feel like a woman. It's very devastating and emotionally traumatic, as you know. Having your friend hear this song, reinforces that no matter what, she is a woman and shall be celebrated.
Sisters Are Doing It For Themselves (by Annie Lennox and Aretha Franklin).... a very 'empowering' song for women - celebrating womanhood.
- 1 decade ago
Mellisa Ethridge has songs about this after her battle with breast cancer. I'm sorry I don't know the titles,but I'm sure you can find them. I think the CD may have come out last year. Hugs and prayers to your friend
