Victoria

I am noticing some very scary things in my life here recently. I just came out of a 17 year relationship and started dating a man whom is 9 years younger than me. We have known each other for 2 years, and over the past year we have spoke daily/nightly.He admitted that he loved me back in December. We made our relationship official in March. Things were going great, and according to him they still are but I am finding that I am constantly trying to figure out what he sees in me. He tells me he loves me everyday, he is always talking positive about me when we are out with people. Our sex life is amazing. He tells me I am beautiful and he is always talking about our future together. But even though all of these signs of his interest in me are there, I keep getting the feeling that he's too good for me, and then I close up and get mad and try to find reasons that could mean he is losing interest in me? I don't understand what is going on here. I feel like I need constant reassurance from him and I know this could put a strain on our relationship. I love him so much, and I hate doing this. What could be causing me to act this way? It seems every other day we are talking about our feelings and how my behavior or his behavior makes us feel and it still keeps happening. Help!

I was hired as a picker and I had no idea the strain my body was going to be put under. I have had to leave early the past two days as I was unable to even walk due to the blisters and pain in my feet. I left 1 hour and 30 minutes early today, and yesterday I left 45 minutes early from my 10 hour shift. I used paid personal time to cover these. My question is, will I get in trouble for using my paid time off for leaving early? I have yet to speak to a supervisor as there seems to never be one around. I don't want to make a habit out of this, but until my feet get used to this I feel like I have no options. Can anyone explain this to me?

My husband and me separated in February. When he left, I was jobless, and am waiting on my orientation date to start work now. It's been 3 weeks and I have heard nothing back regarding my background check and drug test. My bills are all coming due again and I am in dire need to make money to pay them. Any tips?