Tabatha

I have been a manager at a Subway for 5 years. I have been thinking about going to school for Business Management. Eventually I would go for a degree, but for now I was thinking about getting a certificate in Business Management. I was wondering if a certificate would do me any good. Will I have a better,chance finding a better job?

I have been on off with my fiance for 10 years, but we have been currently together for the last 4 years. He has accepted my 4 year old son as his own and my son calls him dad. We also have a 2 year old daughter together. He has a seasonal part time job, so we both decided that he should be a stay at home dad, since day care is so expensive for two kids. I just found im pregnant and he told me that i need to get an abortion. I understand that he is the one at home with the kids all the time, but I cant afford 3 kids in daycare...well 2 because my son will be in preschool this year. I would never think in a million years to do what he wants me to do. Im so torn. He doesn't want the baby, but i do. But do i really want to bring a baby into a broken family and have the babys father accept his brother and sister but not him or her. I dont know if he means it or not. But i don't know what to do.

I told my husband that I wanted to get our son a mobiGo or Leap Pad for his 4th birthday. Our son has a mild case of autism so my husband says that because he isn't like other 4 year Olds we shouldn't buy him one. Even though they are learning games. It makes no sense to me, but I just want some opinions...I really want to buy him one.

I recently got a raise at my job and have been getting overtime every week too, well someone called out today and it's going to give me 10 hours overtime so I was excited and my husband got pissed at me saying that I need to start using brain cells because we lost our food stamps and our income tax will be smaller. Then I asked,"Are you serious right now?" He said I was stupid for NOT thinking that way. Wouldn't you rather make more money right now? Who is proud to have food stamps..I'm actually proud of myself for not needing them anymore. How do I get him to see that he is actually the one who is thinking f*ed up?

I am a few days late on my period but a couple days earlier I took a pregnancy test that was for sure a negative. I took another one but I missed the stick and the test only got a little bit of urine...the test has the one solid line and a second white line, the background is white, but some how the second line is still noticable. Am I seeing things?

I starting eating healthy and going to a gym 4 month's ago and I have lost 30lbs total. For the last 2 weeks I haven't gone to the gym and haven't been watching what I eat. I don't eat fast food or drink soda so I'm not eating horrible, but I feel like I will start slipping into bad habits. For everyone who is on a diet, what keeps you going everyday.

Ultimately my problem is time. I am a manager trying to go to school with 2 kids.

How long do you think it will be before I start seeing results from toning my arms if I work out my arms for 15 minutes everyday? I have fat arms, but I'm eating healthy and going to the gym for an hour and 15 minutes 4 days a week. I'm losing weight the healthy way so it seems like it takes forever to lose weight. Also when riding a bike, what part of my legs does it work out the most? A lot of my fat is in my arms and thighs and it's the hardest to get rid of.

I called the health department to make an appointment for a pap smear and they said in order for me to get a pap smear I have to be on birth control for 3 months and then get one? Isn't there somewhere I can go to get a pap smear done without being a birth control? I don't have insurance so I can't go to the doctor.

I think I have cervical cancer and I know I should make an appointment at the health department but what should I say? Does anyone else have that on here? If so how did you know? What are any and/or all symptoms?

Also I got an MRI done about a year ago and the doctor said I have cysts? Could the doctor have mistaken that for cancer?

If someone contracted HPV while pregnant does that mean the baby will have it? If it was delivered by c section does that make a difference? Also if they had a pap smear done 6 weeks after having child wouldn't the doctor notice any abnormalities?

My son is 3 and he will be 4 in November. He just started using the potty about 4 months ago and sometimes he still tries to poop in the corner. I know that some boys take longer to potty train but he also has problems saying words. He can repeat any word I ask him to say clearly and some days he speaks in sentences clearly, even singing songs and quoting spongebob but other days he slurrs all his words together in a sentence and no one can understand him. I was wondering if this is normal? I just want to be on the safe side.

I am 5'3" and I weigh 190lbs. I have lost 29lbs in the last 3 months. My goal is to be 150-160. I know my average weight is supposed to be 130 but I have always been big. Big butt, big boobs and I am muscular, but I am in the process of toning everything. I was on the weightlifting team in high school but I really let myself go after having 2 kids. I am back on track and I joined a gym with a friend to get me motivated. Anyway what I want to know is if people can give me tips. What helped you in losing weight? Is there something I should or shouldn't be doing? Exercises that helped get rid of thighs?

I have known my husband for 10 years now and we have been together for 4 years. We have two children together. Well this is about our sex life, just for a heads up. Our sex life has been fine up until recently. He doesn't want to kiss, foreplay..

Nothing. He just wants a quickie. He used to give me back massages, now he refuses. He wont even let me do oral and the first thing I think is that he doesn't want me to because I suck at it...but why did he want me to do it before? I just feel unloved and I already tried talking to him about it and he acts immature about it...he will even walk away and say nevermind to having sex because he just wants it one way for like 5 mins. Could he be depressed? He hasn't had a job in 6 months since he got laid off. How can I help him understand how I feel.

Did any one see on YouTube about that super earth? Was that a fake?

I have a 2002 Saturn SL2 and my driver side window wont roll up. I don't even know what to put over it or how to. Also how much do you think it would cost to fix it? I know it's most likely the motor...I just don't know how much the motor is plus labor cost.

Earlier today the power flickered which was weird because it wasn't raining or storming. Then I tried to turn my laundry room light on and it didn't work...then tried to use the bathroom and that light didn't turn on, but all the other lights work in the house. We changed the bulb and they still don't work, so we flip the breaker switch and still nothing. We rent the property so I know I have to call the landlord tomorrow but my husband has me all freaked out that its paranormal. Is there a logical explanation? I don't know much about that stuff.

What are some ways to keep affection alive in a marriage with 2 kids? He is a stay at home dad by the way.

My husband and I have been together 4 years now and we have known each other for 10. We have 2 kids together. Daycare was so expensive and he had a seasonal job and I manage a business so we decided that for now it would be best for him to stay home with the kids until they are older. They are only 3 and 1. It has been 9 months now since he has been a stay at home dad and it has killed our relationship. He complains about everything and I try my best to make him happy but its never enough. I don't want to give up because we both love each other and don't want the kids to bounce around house to house but what can I do to help him feel appreciated more? And how can we feel like lovers not just parents?

My daughter is 4 months old and has not slept a whole not for me yet. When she was a newborn she woke up every 2 hours and its a relief not to be doing that anymore, but it feels like I will never get to sleep a full night.

My son started sleeping through the night when he was 2 months old and he has been ever since. (I really got lucky the first time around) It's either 1-2 times a night...and I try to help.I feed her 8oz bottle, give her a nice relaxing bath, put her in some lotion, rub her back while she is falling asleep (All this is between 8-9...I wake up at 5am for work all week) But she always wakes up for a bottle once or twice a night. I know all babies are different, but I would just like some feedback on how long it took your little ones to sleep through the night.

Oh and she sleeps in her own crib.