CINDY J

Any tips will be appreciated I would like to get them to bloom again overall the leaves appear to be healthy but the root system seems overexposed

My live in boyfriend of eight years and I are friends with a couple I have known for a long time. The guy recently started texting me usually while he is sitting right beside my boyfriend. At first it was mild flirting and I didn't think much about it. Then the other night he went too far and ask if I would have sex with him. I did not respond to the text. Then I think he felt bad cause he knows im not easy and ask me out to dinner. The whole time my boyfriend was sitting right beside him. When my man and I left I told him what happened. He was upset and we discussed the whole situation. He is more upset that the guy treated me disrespect tful. Im more upset that the guy could be so low as to hit on me while he is sitting there acting like he is my mans good buddies. Now we don't know what to do. Do we say something to him? Forget it? What? We ran into the guy yesterday and my boyfriend wasn't overly friendly to him but spoke and talked briefly . How would you handle this?

Help! My boyfriend of seven years is a total mamas boy. He is thirty years old and we live together. Here's the problem, he wants to spend all his time with his mother. Our total weekends are spent at her house usually for long visits like six to ten hours per day. Every day. We never go do anything together but go there. After three days of it last weekend and us fighting over it he finally gave in and said he'd go swimming with me. Then he called his mom and invited her and her boyfriend to go, even worse once we got there he walked off with them and left me locking up my car. Once I made it to the beach mom and her boyfriend were trying to get in some romantic alone time and he went andsat with them leaving me by myself the whole time we were there. Now its a new weekend and we are starting all over again. Its Friday night and he spent the entire evening at her house. Came home and went to sleep. I'm sure she's planning on coming here tomorrow. I'm tired of not having campionship. I like his mom. I just would enjoy having a life of some sort. Should I go on and do fun things without him? I would like to have a decent relationship and enjoy doing stuff together but I am starting to wonder if that is ever gonna happen. I try talking to him but it doesn't help at all. Any suggestions?

If someone is telling you one thing and their body language is saying something else, which do you believe? Do you think body language pertains to everyone or are some people simply unreadable?

My live in boyfriend of five years doesn't seem to think this is wrong but I'm not sure and having mixed feelings. A married lady we are aquainted with from her previous business has made several rude comments to us in the past, such as, "Boy I would enjoy watching the two of you have sex" and I'd sure like to take nude pictures of you" etc...is now employed with my guy. He's in the process of training her and I haven't said anything to him to raz him about the things she has said in the past, he's doing his job. Then today they were working in the same town I work and on my lunch I passed them coming from another local town about five miles away. After work he comes to see me at my job and tells me they had gone to the neighboring town to eat at her restaurant that has recently closed for business. He would be furious with me if I did what he just did but at the same time he doesn't see anything wrong with it since they work together anyhow..free food you know.

Who is right?

The reason I am hesitate is my guy is kinda the jealous type, not overly jealous but some and the photographer is a professional but a guy so I'm not sure if my guy will actually like the idea of another man taking the pictures. What do you think?