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I can not stand my brother in law's wife! I love my brother in law and niece but She is so nasty and disrespectful to my mother & father in law and other members of the family for no good reason other than she thinks she's better than all of us. When I first met my husband I tried my best to get along with her but the only thing she was interested in was bad mouthing the family and my future husband to me. I hate being in the same room with her because it's hard for me to be fake & pretend to be interested in all her "Look how much better I am than all of you" stories. We moved out of state about 2 years ago and about 6 months later my FIL got cancer I was only able to go down for a week to help, she doesn't work, lives 10 mins away and did NOTHING to help my in laws during his treatment (that killed any hope of ever getting along w/ her) My husband was talking to his brother about him coming up to visit. I was excited but then to my dismay he said she'd be coming too. The entire family knows how I feel and I've been told you can cut the tension with a knife when we are in the same room. I can not fake it enough to have her stay under the same roof for 5 days, my own roof no less, because I don't think I can grin and bear it like I do at a 3 hour family dinner. I may blow up on her! What can I do to keep my sanity and not punch her?

My daughter's Godfather is getting married, he is also her father's cousin. I don't get along with my daughter's father at all, and I don't really want to even sit in the same room with him. I'm cordial with the family & they all say how they are so excited to see me (most of the family lives out of state). My daughter is in the wedding party as well. Also, my boyfriend isn't too thrilled about me going either & I don't want to cause an issue with us. What's the best way to decline the invitation? Should I tell them personally or just RSVP the invitation. I do like my daughter's Godfather and would like to be there I just don't think it's my place to be there I'm not family anymore contrary to what they think this is my daughter's family and she will definitely be in the wedding party regardless of my decision.

I have a crush on this guy that does work for my company and comes in usually about once a week. Lately (the last two months) when he has come in we would talk for about a half hour, and everyone that passes us by (even my boss) says he likes me and it's incredibly obvious I like him. I say flirtatious things to him and keep the conversation engaging. He is incredibly shy and timid. How do I get this guy to ask me out? I can't get him out of my head!

Okay, so yesterday I responded to my cousin's FB message in my inbox and accidentally replied to it in the guy I am sort of seeing's inbox. I wouldn't care except for the fact that it consisted of what I did this weekend.....went out all weekend and met two guys. I also said I didn't see him but I was keeping my options open, and asked her how her dinner date was and who she went with. He responded to it today and told me he went to dinner with his sister and he was glad I had a good time. I didn't realize I sent the message in his inbox and asked him what he was talking about and he said he was replying to my message. I didn't know what else to say, so I just replied with "OMG that message was for my cousin, not you....sorry about that." He didn't respond yet. I feel really bad because I like this guy a lot and hope that this didn't mess things up. After it happened, for some reason I like him even more now. What can I do to fix this? Thank you in advance.

I've been talking to this guy for about a month. He's really not a phone person, because he hardly talks to anyone on the phone, even his own family. I'm usually the one who is always doing the calling, but he is receptive to my calls & returns my calls but the conversations are usually very limited...10 minutes usually. Anyways, we hung out a few times and the last time we hung out was 2 weekends ago and he spent the entire weekend at my house. The plan was only to hang out Friday night, but he stayed until Sunday afternoon. We were hitting it off and had an awesome time all weekend. But now it's been a week and I haven't heard from him at all. Do I call him? Wait for him to call me? Is tacky to send a message on FB to him? He's alive and well because I have seen activity on his FB (I'm a stalker I know), but we are FB friends so I can do that! ;)

Anyways I just feel kind of at a loss as far as what to do.

Thanks!!

I have a neighbor that lives next door to me in a townhouse, we've lived next to each other for 4 years. Since the day I met him I didn't like him or trust him (women's intuition I guess). Anyways, I was trying my best to be nice and neighborly until he started getting real obnoxious, constantly coming to my house, asking me out, always asking me about my daughter, but in a creepy way (she's 10) etc. Finally I just had enough and started ignoring him and avoiding him as much as possible. I guess over the last few years he got sick of me ignoring him, so he started being a real jerk, complaining to the HOA that I leave my garbage can out, banging on my door asking me stupid questions, like can I put my recycle bins on the other side of my driveway because the garbage men throw them at his car and it scratches it (yeah right like the garbage men are going to intentionally throw my bins at your car) Anyways, the other night at almost 1 in the morning I hear someone ringing my doorbell, and banging on my door. I wasn't about to go downstairs and see who it was and what they want so I waited until they left so I could see them out my bedroom window, wouldn't you know, it was the psycho. He left, and came back and banged even harder and rang my bell continuously, I thought he was going to bang my door in. I didn't call the cops until the next day (that was dumb on my part). They said they couldn't do anything for him knocking on my door. WTF he wasn't knocking, he was BANGING on it in a harassing way. Since that night he has kept his garbage can out right up against my driveway to make it difficult for me to pull in, and two days after the knocking I found a bag of dog poo on my front doorstep. He is the worst, and alot of my neighbors that have encountered think he is wacko but he doesn't bother them like he bothers me. I'm avoiding him now more then ever but I know eventually I'm going to have to deal with him again. My question is what do I do if I'm stuck being seen by him or he comes to my door like that again? My one thought was to hit the panic button on my alarm and let the police come that way. But I don't know if that will make him leave me alone. That's all I want is him to leave me alone and NEVER talk to me again!

(sorry this is so long!)

I was just watching a segment about her becoming a him on Entertainment Tonight. They were also saying she was a gay advocate and all down with the gay agenda blah blah blah...I'm just wondering- How can she represent the gay community if she is a man that's a lesbian (or was a lesbian). Wouldn't that just make her a straight man?

It's scary how much of a man she looks like.

All this trans-gender stuff confuses me, and is that what some gay people really want?

*sorry is I mis-categorized it, wasn't sure where to put this.*

I like Cool Biographies (not historical), & Good fiction stories/novels. I'm open to a lot but I don't want to read the classics like Pride and Prejudice or War & Peace. Thanks for any advice and suggestions!

I have nicknamed her Bridezilla, but she is wacked out whether she is getting married or not. Being in her wedding party has been pretty lame so far. As a Bridesmaid I have been alienated from the rest of the bridal party, I guess because I'm not friends with anyone but the bride & groom I was lost in the cracks. The bride is calling me "The Invisible Bridesmaid" & when I try to plead my case about how I haven't been included with anything I guess she decided that it was tirme for her to vent on me. She called me everything she could...a bad friend, stuck up, negative, a hater, in not so many words saying I'm a bad mother. So this morning I sent her a an email simply stating that I am dropping out of the wedding. She called me upset that I'm dropping out of her special day, but never once apologized for what she said to me. She has been like this with me the whole time, so I know it isn't last minute stress thats causing her to go crazy. (She's known for being dillusional & usually can't keep friends long) She is saying that my daughter is a snob because she doesn't want to hang out at her house with her soon-to-be stepdaughter. My child is not obligated to hang w/ ppl just because she is asked to, I told her it is ok for her to say no, but the Bride just doesn't comprehend. After I told her I am not changing my mind she still is pushing that I think about it. How can I go back on my what I said after she has already told the enitre wedding party I dropped out, so I probably look like the villain to them. I don't want to go back to it and have ppl talking behind my back and being phony to me. So did I make the right decision, or did I just ruin this girl's wedding?

Okay I'm not interested in hearing how much you think the Jonas Brothers suck, or my daughter is in a Jonas Brothers cult or anything like that, I want answers from actual girls (or guys) that like the Jonas Brothers, or have bias opinions . (Thank you)

I bought tickets to take my daughter to the Sept 5th Jonas Brothers Show during the presale back in June(???). We are going up to Vermont for Labor Day weekend and my Mom bought another set of tickets so I can take my daughter to the August 31st show. Aside from myself having Jonas Brothers overload, is 2 Jo Bros concerts in 1 week too much to an actual fan?

PS She doesn't know I'm taking her to either show. Its a surprise

I got her good tickets, and she has no idea she's going. What else can I do to make her have an awesome time? (Its an early Bday present)

I'm a Bridesmaid in her wedding in Nov. She has not kept me in the loop as far as her wedding, and when I mention it she goes crazy and goes on that I'm not a good friend & I don't care about her wedding which is not true. I paid and extra $30 to have my dress made faster b/c in her mind I was late ordering my dress, while another bridesmaid ordered hers just 3 days before, but that was OK.

My daughter is her Flower Girl & is friends with her fiance's daughter, Bridezilla asked me if my daughter could spend the night last night & I asked my daughter if she wanted to, & she said no, I told zilla and she went off about how my child is a brat & that since she doesn't have time 4 her friend maybe she won't have time for her wedding either. She went off on me b/c I am going out of town Labor Day wkend, and her mom is giving her a bridal shower then. I had no idea.I understand she is stressed but She's making me crazy, I can't drop out of the wedding, she surprisingly has no1 else to do it

I just bought my daughter a Wii, and I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice as far as what games you think she would enjoy? I know they have Hannah Montana and HSM games but I would like some variety in her selections. She likes to do surgery (virtual) ie Edheads.com. So if anyone knows about the surgery game that is for Wii can you tell me if it is appropriate for a 9 year old girl?

Thanks

I see all these sites (mostly ebay) advertising new 2008 Wii like its a new model with more features as opposed to the first ones that came out. Is this true? Or is this just a way for them to get tech-tards like me to buy their Wii?

Also, if I do get a bundle which one is the best and where do they sell it?

She gets the money she saved up and buys a bus ticket to find her Dad (in Chicago I think) Santa is sitting next to her on the bus, and helps her.

Her Dad is playing piano in the mall or a Hotel Lobby or something. I have looked everywhere for this movie and I can't find it! Please Help!