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My bf of 2yrs 4 months once again went out and had a little too much fun on the weekend and started hiding his phone etc.. Last year he went on a boys trip to mexico with some chick friends that didn't know he had a GF and I saw the pictures he was acting like he was single. Then later on that yr he was flirting with alot of girls on the internet. Throughout the year he would meet girls out etc. Well finally I had enough as I have forgiven him for last year but when this happend recently that was it, he was out. He loves me I know and as far as I can tell he was never this type of person but I think were we live and his lifestyle has changes his values are a bit different. He still comes around and I have forgiven him but today was weird he has his car parked at my house thats not working he went to get a uhaul to move it but he just quite went to his house and was really emotional. I bought this huge house earlier this year and we had alot of plans for us in it, but since we broke up a month ago I've been doing so much on my own with my friends to help me with the house. It was overwhelming at first but now I believe I can do it. Last we he saw I had the house painted today i think he was upset bc he saw I was redoing the landscaping too. He said I didnt' need him anymore. He text and said he was sorry for everything he has done to me. i called him he sound like he was crying. It was silly. About a week ago he came back asking if we can get back together but I told him he needs help he has took the initiative to talk to a relationship counselor but I still dont' know because I have to learn to trust him and right now I dont' know if I can ever feel any kind of comfort again. i do believe in him and I do believe he can be good but for me I'm burt out. Need to know why does he all of a sudden is so emotional bc he feels I don't need him. Why is this so overwhelming to him. I was suppose to keep the dog we had together but he even said he doesn't want to inconvenience me so he kept the dog and left really emotional.

We've been dating a little over two yrs but when he goes out he tends to flirt and dance with other chick take their number then try to hide and sneak around communicating with them. Why this just happened and also happend last year. He loves me I know, we do have issues sex issues says he's not sexually attracted to me. he wants me to do so much more in the bed that I'm not willing to do, or not familiar with. I'm the only one thats been so much into his family and that his family adores. Our lives are into each other. He does nice things for me, dinner, trips, I just bought a house and he spends hrs fixing and money fixing everything why? but he goes out and does stuff thats so hurtful. i know he loves me. I broke up with him bc it was too hurtful and not his first time I feel like he will always be this way. why guys please make me understand. Will he ever change or what could be the problem?

Do you feel the need to check it, if he has female friends you don't know about. Or he seems like he want it to be private. He doesn't let you answer it, or should you be able to answer it. I seem to struggle when it comes to his cell phone don't why i feel so nosey. Please let me know what you think, how do you handle it, whats wright or wrong to exspect and not to exspect, wheather you're married, engaged or dating what it the right way????

I'm so confused about this thing what am I suppose to do or to write following what exactly is following

Dating for 2yrs, but not looking too good. Dating for two years been through so much, my heart says Im not the one, we finally had an honest conversation. Says he loves me but not sexually attracted to me but want to work and have that attraction. I'm beautiful, I just don't have big breast, I'm not sure what makes him unattracted to me sexually. He says its the sex, i'm not a sexual person, what can I do to improve, or help this relationship in a positive way. I want to improve but I don't think its that I think its more. I think its just me he likes a different type. I dont' know its really hard emotionally to accept this. How can we improve, will he ever be attracted to me if I implement or improve my sex appetite.

Dating for 2yrs, but not looking too good. Dating for two years been through so much, my heart says Im not the one, we finally had an honest conversation. Says he loves me but not sexually attracted to me but want to work and have that attraction. I'm beautiful, I just don't have big breast, I'm not sure what makes him unattracted to me sexually. He says its the sex, i'm not a sexual person, what can I do to improve, or help this relationship in a positive way. I want to improve but I don't think its that I think its more. I think its just me he likes a different type. I dont' know its really hard emotionally to accept this. How can we improve, will he ever be attracted to me if I implement or improve my sex appetite.

Dating for 2yrs, but not looking too good. Dating for two years been through so much, my heart says Im not the one, we finally had an honest conversation. Says he loves me but not sexually attracted to me but want to work and have that attraction. I'm beautiful, I just don't have big breast, I'm not sure what makes him unattracted to me sexually. He says its the sex, i'm not a sexual person, what can I do to improve, or help this relationship in a positive way. I want to improve but I don't think its that I think its more. I think its just me he likes a different type. I dont' know its really hard emotionally to accept this. How can we improve, will he ever be attracted to me if I implement or improve my sex appetite.

Its been 9 yrs, he was 21 they dated for 5 yrs part of HS and his college. She didn't go to college and she was cheating on him for a long time then they finally broke up 2 month before she died. She asked him to come to the hospital and he didn't she ended up dying. he regrets every moment of it. Last weekend it was the annerversary of her death and he was chating with her mom and family on FB and looking at pics of her. they even posted 3 pics to his profile of them hugged up at prom etc. saying the love her life. i was so hurt, i think he's fine but he told the mom, he remember the day and it still kills him inside. How would you feel. He is a good guy and he loves me. Sometimes I feel I will never have him 110% if he still hurts over this. Sometimes he still looks at her pics in his picture book, and I know he writes in his journal still today about it. Should I let this bother me. I don't understand and I want to get over the way i feel. It hurts me that he still feels hurt by this. I always assume he will not love me the same or even more. Or am I just a jelouse selfish person. We've been dating for 2yrs

Its been 9 yrs, he was 21 they dated for 5 yrs part of HS and his college. She didn't go to college and she was cheating on him for a long time then they finally broke up 2 month before she died. She asked him to come to the hospital and he didn't she ended up dying. he regrets every moment of it. Last weekend it was the annerversary of her death and he was chating with her mom and family on FB and looking at pics of her. they even posted 3 pics to his profile of them hugged up at prom etc. saying the love her life. i was so hurt, i think he's fine but he told the mom, he remember the day and it still kills him inside. How would you feel. He is a good guy and he loves me. Sometimes I feel I will never have him 110% if he still hurts over this. Sometimes he still looks at her pics in his picture book, and I know he writes in his journal still today about it. Should I let this bother me. I don't understand and I want to get over the way i feel. It hurts me that he still feels hurt by this. I always assume he will not love me the same or even more. Or am I just a jelouse selfish person. We've been dating for 2yrs

I'm not trying to play games, but my BF told me a big lie. He booked a trip which includes females to mexico without telling me. I told him to have fun in mexico, and hung up on monday. He also refuse to tell me who are the guys going. So this is rediculous and I really don't have a relationship. We seem like almost the perfect couple b/c he do much wonderful things with/for me. Sayed he wanted one more boytrip, found out it included the female friends he use to go on trips with. Now he keeps calling and texting. At this point I don't even want to talk to him but I want him to understand this is crap and I will not tolerate it and he needs to talk. How can I effectively but silently relay this message. He just text and ask please let me know if you alive.

I'm not trying to play games, but my BF told me a big lie. He booked a trip which includes females to mexico without telling me. I told him to have fun in mexico, and hung up on monday. He also refuse to tell me who are the guys going. So this is rediculous and I really don't have a relationship. We seem like almost the perfect couple b/c he do much wonderful things with/for me. Sayed he wanted one more boytrip, found out it included the female friends he use to go on trips with. Now he keeps calling and texting. At this point I don't even want to talk to him but I want him to understand this is crap and I will not tolerate it and he needs to talk. How can I effectively but silently relay this message. He just text and ask please let me know if you alive.

I'm not trying to play games, but my BF told me a big lie. He booked a trip which includes females to mexico without telling me. I told him to have fun in mexico, and hung up on monday. He also refuse to tell me who are the guys going. So this is rediculous and I really don't have a relationship. We seem like almost the perfect couple b/c he do much wonderful things with/for me. Sayed he wanted one more boytrip, found out it included the female friends he use to go on trips with. Now he keeps calling and texting. At this point I don't even want to talk to him but I want him to understand this is crap and I will not tolerate it and he needs to talk. How can I effectively but silently relay this message. He just text and ask please let me know if you alive.

Its been 10 months, he loves me says and does the best things for me. He like to travel, group trips, use to take alot of boy/girl trips. He booked a trip to mexico. Didn't say anything one of his female friends helped him her and her 3 friends are going his boys are going. After I saw the flight reservations he claimed he didn't book with the girls and its a boy trip, refuse to tell me who the guys are. Said he wanted one more trip with the fellas. Why wouldn't he tell me. I feel like I don't really know who he is, he acts like he is so in love. I do agree we have a wonderful relationship, we travel, church, go on double dates. We go out with our own friends. etc Don't understand why he is planned this without telling me and why he wont tell me who these guys are

Its been 10 months, he loves me says and does the best things for me. He like to travel, group trips, use to take alot of boy/girl trips. He booked a trip to mexico. Didn't say anything one of his female friends helped him her and her 3 friends are going his boys are going. After I saw the flight reservations he claimed he didn't book with the girls and its a boy trip, refuse to tell me who the guys are. Said he wanted one more trip with the fellas. Why wouldn't he tell me. I feel like I don't really know who he is, he acts like he is so in love. I do agree we have a wonderful relationship, we travel, church, go on double dates. We go out with our own friends. etc Don't understand why he is planned this without telling me and why he wont tell me who these guys are.

I saw an email from a female friend and she CC'd it to two other girlfriends. It was details about this trip and she asked to tell his boys. I didn't think much of it, then last night I saw he booked a flight almost $750 to mexico. Its FEB its for APR. We love each other he tells me I'm the one. His actions tell that he truly love me. I know his family friends co-workers then this. I don't know how to feel I don't know how to approach it. I want to wait till he decides to say something but its killing me. What should I do? I know I can't trust him if he lies about this and he has lied this far. This is a big expensive fun trip that he wants to go with some ladies that I don't even know.

He does not know I found out I snooped in his email. I can't tell him that. And he only booked a ticket for himself.

I saw an email from a female friend and she CC'd it to two other girlfriends. It was details about this trip and she asked to tell his boys. I didn't think much of it, then last night I saw he booked a flight almost $750 to mexico. Its FEB its for APR. We love each other he tells me I'm the one. His actions tell that he truly love me. I know his family friends co-workers then this. I don't know how to feel I don't know how to approach it. I want to wait till he decides to say something but its killing me. What should I do? I know I can't trust him if he lies about this and he has lied this far. This is a big expensive fun trip that he wants to go with some ladies that I don't even know.

He does not know I found out I snooped in his email. I can't tell him that. And he only booked a ticket for himself.

I saw an email from a female friend and she CC'd it to two other girlfriends. It was details about this trip and she asked to tell his boys. I didn't think much of it, then last night I saw he booked a flight almost $750 to mexico. Its FEB its for APR. We love each other he tells me I'm the one. His actions tell that he truly love me. I know his family friends co-workers then this. I don't know how to feel I don't know how to approach it. I want to wait till he decides to say something but its killing me. What should I do? I know I can't trust him if he lies about this and he has lied this far. This is a big expensive fun trip that he wants to go with some ladies that I don't even know.

He does not know I found out I snooped in his email. I can't tell him that. And he only booked a ticket for himself.

I saw an email from a female friend and she CC'd it to two other girlfriends. It was details about this trip and she asked to tell his boys. I didn't think much of it, then last night I saw he booked a flight almost $750 to mexico. Its FEB its for APR. We love each other he tells me I'm the one. His actions tell that he truly love me. I know his family friends co-workers then this. I don't know how to feel I don't know how to approach it. I want to wait till he decides to say something but its killing me. What should I do? I know I can't trust him if he lies about this and he has lied this far. This is a big expensive fun trip that he wants to go with some ladies that I don't even know.

He does not know I found out I snooped in his email. I can't tell him that. And he only booked a ticket for himself.

I saw an email from a female friend and she CC'd it to two other girlfriends. It was details about this trip and she asked to tell his boys. I didn't think much of it, then last night I saw he booked a flight almost $750 to mexico. Its FEB its for APR. We love each other he tells me I'm the one. His actions tell that he truly love me. I know his family friends co-workers then this. I don't know how to feel I don't know how to approach it. I want to wait till he decides to say something but its killing me. What should I do? I know I can't trust him if he lies about this and he has lied this far. This is a big expensive fun trip that he wants to go with some ladies that I don't even know.

I saw an email from a female friend and she CC'd it to two other girlfriends. It was details about this trip and she asked to tell his boys. I didn't think much of it, then last night I saw he booked a flight almost $750 to mexico. Its FEB its for APR. We love each other he tells me I'm the one. His actions tell that he truly love me. I know his family friends co-workers then this. I don't know how to feel I don't know how to approach it. I want to wait till he decides to say something but its killing me. What should I do? I know I can't trust him if he lies about this and he has lied this far. This is a big expensive fun trip that he wants to go with some ladies that I don't even know.