susan

About 4 years ago I met a friend I used to be friends with in High School. I saw them on Face Book. So we became friends. I was not sure if I should be friends again and it took almost 3 years before i fully open up and let us become friends again. About a year ago her mom died and her mom was very sick for a long time and never cleaned her house. So I went to her mom house every weekend for 9 months and helped her clean her mom house. Never asked her for anything in return. Then the other day we went out to Sushi. She has previously on another day said she is bored because she is hardly working because she is on work mans comp. So when we were out to dinner she acted in the end like she was in a hurry for the waiter to bring the check. I stated why are you in such hurry we are having fun here and you don't have anything to do. I did not pick up she just wanted to get rid of me.

Now a couple of months ago my mom was diagnosed with terminal illness lung cancer. At first I was not as manic as I am now. Now I also lost my job. I am depressed and manic and negative now. My friend gave me no warning and for two days ignored my messages and text and phone calls. My gut told me I was being ignored. Then today she blocked me on F B no warning of what was wrong. So I called her from a phone number she did not recognize! She answered and when she heard it was me she said "What"? Like I was bothering her. I asked her why she blocked me on FB? She said she took FB down for everyone.

If they do what type of punishment can they use? For example belt, hand or ruler? What type of punishment is acceptable in the home?

Is this normal for Irish weddings for today generation in there twenties and thirties.