Adam

Hey guys

I hope u r well.

I am a 27 year old hero guy working as an engineer. Just last week for the first time in my life I got episodes of panic and worry that I might be homoseexual.

For the past 5 days it hasn't shaken off and it's paralysed me from doing anything. It might have been triggered but it's terrifying please help.

Hey guys

I hope all is well.

Cut a long story short I have been getting fearful memories of mistakes I made in an old job that I worry will haunt me in the future.

I worked part time as a bar assistant that pretty horrible anyway, but as I'm diabetic it caused me to say inappropriate things to female customers and when I look back can't believe what I did.

After that o got fired from it and that was 2 years ago. But snow I'm in a better position enjoying my current job, o get moment when I worry those mistakes could be flagged and held against me.

Please help

Hey guys

I hope you are well.

I'm 27 year old guy with a recent new job and currently I am panicking terribly over my £-490 overdraft of my £500 limit.

I'm supposed to be getting paid in the next 2 weeks which should cover it but don't know how to block this problem out my head.

I'm on a terrible situation please help it makes me feel irresponsible and helpless.

Hey guys

I hope you are well.

I wish to ask you how to keep my mind at a level headed state and stop worrying so much.

Most of the worry stems from past foes, mistakes and people I hated. The trouble is when my mind starts to think about these bad memories it scares me and I feel things like that will happen again and that I am not strong enough.

Please help through some advice.

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently bad memories of times when I mistreated by peers, didn't fit in and was laughed at have been going through my head.

Despite this, I did have many friends throughout my recent years and still do. However when I remember certain people from the past who made me feel out of place or bad about myself, it really hits me hard and makes me feel weak.

Is there a way to overcome this struggle?

Hey guys

I am 25 and studying at uni.

Recently I have been getting severe feelings of resentment of a friend who took the girl I loved away from me.

There is a big problem as he is still in the WhatsApp group our mutual friends set up while we were at uni and they r close and friendly with him as normal.

Is it me that is the problem? He really hurt me by doing what he did and still subtly boasts about the fact only he got that girl that no one else could.

What should I do?

Hey guys

I m 25 and studying at uni.

Recently my girlfriend and I who go out long distance, have been talking a lot on a daily basis.

Anytime I can t text her for a while, she gets furious and starts giving me long ranted texts of how she can t really on anyone and how I am terrible.

I crumble when she sends those kinds of texts and don t want to loose her. What do I do???

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying st uni.

Recently I met my girlfriend on an online site called 7cups. I met her as she was a listener and we hit it off str8 away.

Unfortunately due to a massive mistake, I was also talking to another girl on the same site who got on with me and flirted but ended up blocking me later.

My gf (probably ex now) just asked me out of the blow have u been on 7cups? Which I said no. It says on 7cups it is strictly confidential, if so how did she know I was talking to another girl?

I feel so awful I can't eat and because she hasn't told me yet why she isn't talking and hasn't blocked me I'm panicking and can't sleep. At the same time I owe up to my dreadful mistake and don't know what to do with myself??

I love her soooo much please please help

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

At the moment I live in London and my girlfriend lives in Singapore. We adore each other and things have been going very well.

Recently we were talking for ages on WhatsApp and all of a sudden she stopped and hasn't seen anything on WhatsApp from like more than 2 hours. I know its not a lot but I'm really worried and panicking.

What should I do?

Hey guys

I m 25 and studying at uni.

Recently I have been getting thoughts and feelings that I am not as good as everyone else especially my peers.

Is there a way to stop this and live a normal thinking life?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently I have been having episodes where my whole way thinking is dominates by memories of myself that make me cringe and drop me to a low level.

Does anyone else get that? If so how do I stop getting so affected by this happening?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently I have been remembering several asshopes from my previous degree who were always trying to do better and make me look bad.

How do I forget this and live like they didn't exist?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently all my peers seem to be getting so many women almost on a weekly basis (They r not lying iv seen them). Some of them even get women whilst having a girlfriend.

Every time I try to get girls they are flattered etc, but always end up not answering to texts or phone calls when I do contact them.

When will the time come that I get girls like my peers are?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently many bad memories have been popping up unexpected that make me feel sooo embarrassed and low. Is this normal?

Thanks for the help and advice.

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently a lot of bad memories have been haunting me and sometimes they make me feel really bad like I want to crumble.

Is it possible to stop this from happening?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying st uni.

Recently I have been so disturbed by memories of people who when I think now were toxic to me.

Is it possible to cut them out completely and forget about them?

Please help.

Hey guys

I am 25 and studying at uni.

Recently I have noticed that the only guys that get lots of women are "Assholes".

When I say assholes I mean they behave, act and have done things that are usually considered disrespectful and untrustworthy.

How and why do girls flock for them?

Hey guys

Excuse for asking a question which might seem silly, but how do I use the jar of garlic paste I bought and turn it into an edible dip?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and am currently studying at uni.

Since I have been trying to meet women it's proving to be extremely difficult since I have lost hair. Most of my peers at my age seem to get women easily as they don't have this problem.

As time goes on I keep thinking "Do I even have a chance anymore?"

How do I remain happy and positive despite this?

Hey guys

I'm 25 and studying at uni.

Recently I have had a lot of health problems in my early twenties so I kind of spent that time healing.

Recently though everything I really really want in life that I try my best to acheiev feels like its a million miles away. The thing that worries me is that my peers have achieved everything I really wish I could and it makes me feel useless in comparison.

To put into context these goals include:

Strong self confidence

Getting a job and earning my own money

Getting a girlfriend/women

Being more active and energetic.

I try NY best everyday to improve as a person and push for my goals, but what do I do in times when they feel impossible?