China Rican

Finally got a BFP after a going through an ectopic in March. I know I need to call my doctor but I'M still worried. I'm really scared to get excited at a time that should be very exciting for me and my husband. IF any one has any advice or stories how they went on to have a normal pregnancy after an ectopic I think it would ease my mind a little more. Thanks ahead of time.

I had an ectopic at the end of March/ Beg of April. I was told that me and my husband could start trying again after 2 regular cycles. I had my second on July 3rd (so we had been trying this month) I went in for a check up to get the official okay to start trying. Anyway it is now the 4th and no period but I do have discharge (white, no smell) I am normally very regular with my period. I don't want to get my hopes up or spend money I don't need to. But on the other hand I have to know if I'm pregnant right away so I can have my levels tracked since I have a higher chance of having another ectopic. Please help should I wait or test?

My husband is on parole, he is coming up on his 4th year. He got into trouble at 18 spent 5 years in jail and ever since he got out he has been doing what he has to do. He went to welding school and has a full time job. Apart from a couple of speeding tickets he never gets into trouble. We just moved into a new apartment and he was assigned a new po. His PO decided to stop by this morning at 5:30 and told him that we either have to keep our terrace door unlocked so he can get to out main door (which would mean it would have to stay unlocked all the time) or give him a key so he can get in. I do not feel safe with either one of these options, Can he really ask for us to do this?

BTW we live in NY.

We do not have any money for a down payment. Is there anything that we can do? We are getting married in October and his pre approval ends in September, (I have horrible credit so I am trying to stay away for the loan process) Thing is we have found this house that we both like, everything brand new and they are willing to bring the price down for us. We just don't know what to do. If anyone could offer any help it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

My wedding is October 10th 2009 and I have already sent out save the dates for those who are out of town so they can start planning and making arraignments. We just recently got a card from my FMIL's friend (whom FMIL said she wanted to attend the wedding) Her friend also sent a check, but she never stated if she was going to attend or not. So when would you send a thank you note? After the wedding? After the bridal shower? Or now?

Im getting married 10/10/09 and already have my wedding dress so I am trying to find some cute low wedges, low heal, or flats ? (that don't look like the typical ballerina flats) I was in a car accident in 07 and have lower back problems ( which sucks since im only 22 and love heals but my chiropractor says I shouldn't wear them) Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

How was your experience? Did you get what you ordered or do you get ripped off? Im looking at ones that when you buy them they are custom made size and color to what I want. Please if anyone has bought there wedding dress like this I need your input. Its a very important day and I want everything to go right. Thanks in advance.