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I feel like all my friends are annoyed of me, i am usually picky with friends so people that I do like, they seem great at first but then I feel like they're annoyed of me. So then I try to give them space and not be clingy but then we're not friends anymore. How do I get them to be my close friends. When I think we might just be really close and I start telling them personal things, I realize they don't think that way about me. That I'm just a random girl they talk to as a replacement of their real friends. That they'd ditch me as soon as their other friends come along. Tell me how to be likeable, how to have a personality. With family and cousins and stuff, they admire me and think I'm good. But I don't act the same around my friends. How do I act around my friends, I don't know how anymore. I isolated myself last year due to depression and my best friends leaving me so now I don't know how to act around best friends. I feel like they left me because I started annoying them.

I want a boyfriend, it's my senior year of high school and I have done nothing but sit at home. I want a boyfriend for prom and other stuff. I've been single my whole life, never had anyone like me or crush on me or ask me out. It's not like I'm ugly, I get told i am really pretty by strangers but never by people at my school (well sometimes). People who just met me think I'm amazing but people at school have no idea who I am. I guess I don't act like myself around them. I guess they're so used to me being the way I am, I'm afraid to take that leap to change that. How do I go about getting a boyfriend or being noticed and being popular? And how do I take that leap to acting like myself? I want to get my first kiss already and I want to get invited to a party with alcohol. I know that's a bit weird of a wish but...

I m usually this person who is able to speak to people so easily but lately I can't seem to find my voice at school. I feel unable to communicate or be myself with my group of friends. I have a hard time voicing my opinions during debates. How do I fix this? I have always been like this around my group but not around new people I meet.

I have been having difficulty breathing but when we went to get tests done, everything came out normal. Is it all in my head? From research it feel like it may be hyperventilation syndrome and its been happening for three days now and I feel like I can't get enough air when I inhale yet my oxygen levels are normal and so are my lungs. Am I mentally ill? Do I need to see a therapist? Is it hyperventilation syndrome? I was depressed before and I am trying to recover from it but it was undiagnosed so it might not even have been real if that helps. Pease help me

I have been having difficulty breathing but when we went to get tests done, everything came out normal. Is it all in my head? From research it feel like it may be hyperventilation syndrome and its been happening for three days now and I feel like I can't get enough air when I inhale yet my oxygen levels are normal and so are my lungs. Am I mentally ill? Do I need to see a therapist? Is it hyperventilation syndrome? I was depressed before and I am trying to recover from it but it was undiagnosed so it might not even have been real if that helps. Pease help me

I live in Canada and I am almost 17 years old and my mom takes me to the doctors. I have been sexually active, and I have to ask my doctor some problems I have been having with my skin during shaving and stuff. So if I ask them stuff and there's nothing wrong and I ask them not to tell my mom what I asked. When my mom asks my doctor what I wanted, can she still tell her or not? What age is doctor patient confidentiality at?

This is hard to admit but I don't have any friends. I have acquaintances. I am currently in a group and I have been for the past year but I can't talk in front of these girls, I can't carry a conversation. They're always doing stuff together and never inviting me and it always feels like they're doing me a favor by letting me sit with them at school. This is my last year and I want to make it count. So far I hate it. I thought that I would try and make an effort to talk to them and become real friends and actually join their group but I can't. I can't join another group because its impossible to infiltrate a new group unless you suddenly become gorgeous or are a new student. When I am usually with other people and in classes, i am very confident and social but with these guys, I hate myself. How do I start acting the way I am around them. Before I was quiet because I was depressed that my only friend in the group left us and became popular and I wasn't close to anyone else. School is starting and I want to cry. It's not like I am a nerd or anything but I just can't be myself with them.

For the whole eleventh grade, I stopped being myself. My friends became popular without me and that's what triggered my insecurities and I started isolating myself. I stopped talking to people and I stopped caring about my appearances, hygiene, I hated shopping and I spent the whole year indoors missing out on life. I even began to hate bathing and forced myself to do it every once in a while. Now I want to fix that but have no idea where to start. I don't have any real friends and any social activities. I am excluded in everything and have become extremely insecure. How do I get back on track for my final year of high school.

My school is starting in a few days and I am about to go to the twelfth grade but I don't want to see anyone yet. I don't want anyone to see me. I am still the same: I haven't followed through on any of my goals and all summer I have been at home eating, sleeping and watching movies whereas they've been traveling and living their lives. I don't even have any real friends. I hated the people I hung out with last year. I was invisible to them and always ignored or excluded. I wanted to come back this year, my last year, with a job, a skinnier body, nicer clothes and now it's only ten days away and I just want to cry for not doing anything. Please help me.

I found that I am able to sing songs like 'big girls don't cry', 'what hurts the most' and 'unfaithful' decently, so any one know songs similar to these or what genre this exactly is. Thanks.

My brother does not drink, do drugs or smoke, so nothing like that please. And I cannot afford a car, the most I can spend is 50 dollars. Thanks.

Everyone keeps telling me my boobs are huge but I don't have cleavage when I wear low shirts and I'm only a 34B. When I look in the mirror and stuff they feel big there too. I don't understand, numbers wise, they're not that big but in real life they look big. It's not like I have a petite frame or anything either. I am 5'6 and 125-130lbs.

I am a 17 year old girl and I HATE shopping. I used to love it but every time I would like something, my mom would just reject it. It's not like I had some crazy super slutty taste. I would always compromise and get stuff that I think she might approve of. She makes me dress like her, a 40 year old working woman with no taste. When I say I don't want to, she gets offended that I don't like her taste. I feel so incredibly insecure dressed like this and I just wish she would let me pick out my own clothes. I hate the way I look and I hate shopping now. I am seventeen for goodness sake. Please tell me how to change her mind or how to fix this.

So my best friend started hanging out with other groups last year and I was okay with it but I didn't really get along with those groups. They were the popular girls and then in the summer of last year she went away and when she came back she completely started hanging out with them and didn't make any effort to remain friends. I occasionally got a head nod in the halls. So all through last year I was depressed and not myself because in our group she was my only real friend. The other girls never really knew me and I didn't talk much to them, she was my connection to the group basically. So I stopped talking and I would just listen and now I have no real friends and I feel like she was only friends with me in the beginning to use me because I always helped her out with school but she never called me just to hang out. She left me because I was fat and insecure and unpopular and now I am trying to get my life back after a year of really bad isolation. I even lost weight but I can't bring myself to be happy. I really miss her and I still try. To find ways to talk to her and still be friends but now that she's popular it's like she's too cool to talk to me. But when we are together I don't feel equal but I am able to be myself around her and its much better than not talking at all. Pease tell me how to get over her and be happy and confident and find other friends.

So I used to think that I had a good relationship with my mom but lately she's been such a pain. She is being insecure and completely childish.

1.For example, she didn't want me to have cleavage (though there was non because I was wearing it to my collarbones), she told me to go change and we were at home, I should be comfortable at home right. So I was being sorta slow but I said okay and then she started commenting on how bad and ugly it looked, I am pretty flat chested too and there was still cleavage. No exaggeration whatsoever I swear it was up to my collarbone.

2. And then there was another time that she texted me I love you out of the blue and I replied same and then she freaks out and texts me 'really, do you' or 'yeah right', this has happened several times

3.and today she was making weird faces and I asked her what she was doing and she said I was imitating you

4. and she said that we should see a councillor because she thinks that I don't show her that I love her, WTFF how am I supposed to do that, it's not like I don't do my chores or hug her, so I don't understand what else she effing wants and she doesn't let me do anything the way I want

5. she doesn't like how my furniture is placed in my room, she comes and changes it to her liking

6. I like to have the blinds open so I can see the sun when I wake up and she constantly comes and closes it when I told her not to and my door is closed so its not like the light is going to the hallway.

7.Don't even get me started on how to dress, she wants me to dress exactly like her, like a forty frickin old lady. Then when I say I want something else she gets offended 'what?, I don't have good taste?' And then she tells me I dress like an old lady when she's making me.

She's honestly pissing me off so much, I don't know if she was always like this or if this is recent but it's making my head explode...please help, also she's really racist and I guess sorta religious and extremely bias...like she doesn't believe in gay people and she really sexist, the type of person that thinks girls should be deprived for the sake of boys and that they should be shy and not very outspoken and should just obey orders and never question them AARRRGHHHH

This would be the first time he's introduced me to anyone in his family. It's his older sister, she used to go to the same high school as us but she graduated last year and I wanna make a good impression. I didn't know her when we were in the same school because I wasn't dating her brother then but I knew of her, she was one of the popular people. My boyfriend is also quite popular but I wasn't till this year and I'm really worried she's not going to like me. I wanna seem experienced and funny to her. Any tips?

Me and my boyfriend were having sex and I peed...on his sheets. It was so embarrassing. What should I tell him, what can I say to him. He'll never wanna have sex with me again. We're both 16 and is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong down there? When it happened we both sort of just changed his sheets so his parents don't find out and we washed them but we didn't talk about it at all. Do you think he's gonna break up with me? If we do have sex, what if it happens again, should I see a doctor? Do I have bladder issues?

I'm trying to lose weight and I can't seem to lose any despite sticking to a strict diet with no junk and tread milling daily for 4 miles. I'm not fat to begin with but I can't seem to lose any more weight. My mom and her friend say its because I'm big boned and that I have reached my skinny when I can see that I'm not. Is this real? Because I don't wanna accept this as an answer to my failure.

So, I have a nice body and a nice face but I feel like they don't belong together. My face if you look at just my face, you'd think I should have a petite body. And my body, it's not fat and there's curves, a flattish stomach and really thin legs and it looks good but then when you see my face on it, my face is just not long enough for it from a distance. My hair too. I have long hair but it seems short on my body. Either my face needs to be larger or my body needs to be thinner. Everyone keeps telling me its because I'm big boned because I have been trying to lose weight. My mom keeps telling me I'm skinny but I'm trying to be proportionate not skinny, my arms are sorta broad too. My mom says I can't lose more weight because I'm big boned. Pease help...

And I was curious, where do teens get the alcohol from? Usually, I am a guest at other parties and they always supply the drinks but where do they get it from. I know that their parents don't give it to them. I don't wanna ask them directly because it would seem like I don't know what I'm doing. Where do teens get their hands on the drinks? No lectures on underage drinking and sh*t please. I am not even sure about it yet, just wanna know how they get some.