Lil_MissVal

How is it when a woman doesn't want a baby she can abort it or give it up without the mans consent, but when a man doesn't want a baby he is expected to support financially, and/or be a willing participant in the babys life. Usually the man is considered "wrong" for not wanting the baby or not being ready to be a father, but women are usually encouraged to do what is best for themselves...if the father wants the baby and the woman doesn't; she can do away with the child with no questions or not be held accountable for anything. I don't plan on acheiving anything by posting this; just wanted some different opinions on this topic...Thank you...

years. Her youngest child came down with a serious illness where he needed bone marrow. The father offered his and upon doing the blood work found that the child is not his kid. The father had a blood test done on all of the kids and found 1 out of 3 to be his. He filled for a divorce, but the courts made him pay support for all 3. This guy is paying over 2,000 per month in child support for children that are not his. The ex won't allow him to see the children at all, because he told the other 2 he wasn't their father. She got mad and are withholding all of his kids. He went back to court and was told he had no right to the other two kids, but can have visitation with his own. Yet he is paying support for all 3 kids....He is a truck driver and the kids are 14, 8, and 5. What are your thoughts about this. Do you think this is fair, should she be made to find the kids real father and put him on support and should our legal system hold this woman accountable for her actions?

I've read a lot of comments where people say Christians are hipocrites. I could have sworn a hipocrite was someone who had a do as I say, not as I do attitude. Let the truth be told everyone, religious or non-religious has said one thing and done the opposite. Example: a parent telling a child not to smoke because its bad, but has just fired one up. Isn't that hipocritical? That has nothing to do with religion, just being human. Just because one believes in a religion doesn't mean that they live a "perfect" life. If we were born in sin and trying to live the best we can, who is anyone to say that Christians or any other religious person who makes a bad choice is a hipocrite? Just wanted some different opinions.