Miss Johny

My maintence lady has begun to irk me. Twice she has brought people up asking for MY... as in I pay for it wireless password. I have told her no... that it slows down connection. speed. Right or wrong... I dont care.. I have spoken lol... but.. I am right here arent i? It does slow down connection speed. Also.. If I am on it> Does that mean someone else can get on it while I am on it .. or do they have to waqit cause I have seen where it says some connections are being used. Thanks.

There is a guy in neighborhood who has started coming over every single day. He complains constantly. I hear all about his ex, and he plays cruddy messages that she sent him and the whole transcript of the conversation.

I tell him Leave her alone. Be nice when you have to speak to her. She is always going to be the mother of your child. Yall need to stop..

He biches about sister. and her kids...

I told him to go away on my birthday cause I couldnt handle it

When I was sad one day he was like get over it.

And today he is going on and on and I go Percy, I have cp.. I dont have a job, everything in my life is paid for by my parents.... And I dont go on and on like you do.

And he goes... and I am serious folks

YOU THINK THATS BAD>>>>> I HAD CANCER!

maid of honor. When we got to her dads, her twelve year old sis announced without ever being asked that SHE was going to be maid of honor. On the way up there, I had asked bride to be about that and she said that twelve year old was too young. Not my words hers. And it is HER wedding. SHe told her lil sis that they would have to see. How should she gracefully handle this. Honestly, I think my young niece is old enough to understand that you dont inform people of your role in wedding. And if she had picked someone else besides me, I still would believe that. What should my niece do.

when hearing Lauren was getting married, declared IM GOING TO BE YOUR MAID OF HONOR> if lauren had chosen her sis that would have been fine. But the sis is twelve. and the bride to be made her choice. The sister is twelve years old which truthfully is too young for maid of honor... She is like the daughter sister I never had rolled into one. She has asked me to be her maid of honor. Well we went out to eat and her half sister announced when she heard "Im going to be your maid of honor." she was not asked. I dont want to cause friction. But i also think that my niece should be able to choose whoever she want. IF she had chosen a friend or her sister for that matter i would not have been offended. But she made her choice.I would have thought it would be wrong for Lauren to have to change maid of honor if she had chosen someone else

What yall think? How should this be handled.

1st am not asking how to be disabled. Well aware. Asking specifically on how to handl overbearing aunt who treats me like a child and intentionally launches into long speeches on why i should do should do something around family. This is after i told her no. She intentionally sabatoged two things imp to me over christmas. Not asking advice on how to be disabled. Already know, and non disabled people have nothing of any importance to add to a total strangter they dont know circumpstances of disability. Very condescending and will recieve low rating. I am asking how to when an aunt intentionally tries to go over head over things that do not involve her and she is not paying for around family, how do i handle situation. Especially when in private, i told her no.

My aunt is very controlling. I am financially depenedent on dad and mother. When my aunt hears of a decison i make whether it involves her or not. If she does not like what i have decided she waltzed up to them and goes well-------wants to do this but i think she should do this and it just unnerves me. Christmas i was getting a couch from my mother. Her brothers ex wife. for christmas. Auntie decidethat mom did not need to give me a couch that she had a blue couch that shewould give me. When i said i wanted to look at it, she said well i dont see how you can turn it down im g8iving it to you. So when she was at dads she said well sue was going to give her a couch but i told her would give her a couch sue does not need to give her a couch. She did this again when she saw mom. I dont want her couch. She got pissed off and . She went over my head I was going to take online cource and she decided she would take me to calss.instead of So she announced it to dad that i did not need to that

I am disabled. My aunt has decided that everything i do must be reviewd. It is not because this is neccessary it is because she thinks it is her right to do. This christmad i was getting a couch for christmas, My aunt decided that I instead needed to take a couch she had bought instead of getting one of my own chooseing. When i told her that I wanted to look at it, she got snarky with me and said well I am giving it to you, i dont see how you could refuse/

She then went to my father and my mother seperatly saying sue was going to give her a couch but i told her she did not need to do that i will give her a couch. For the record, the couch she was talking about is ugly. Because she decided she needed to get involved, and intentionally went over my head i am stuck with a piece of garbage couch that will remind me every day how easy it was for her to do. She always does this. When i decided that i wanted to take an online cource instead of going to school she decided to go voer my head

I am disabled. I am not dumb. However when my controlling aunt can not convince me of something, she has started going over my head. Mom was going to give me couch for christmas until my aunt heard of it. Then she went to my dad and said that Mom was going to give me couch but like she told me she would give me couch., Mom didnt need to buy it. This is after she informed me very rudely that she did not see how i could say no when I asked what color.cause acc to her it did not matter. It did not matter to her. She went up to both my father and mother on diff occassions to inform them that there was no need to get couch. I dont want her couch. I dont want her going over my head She does this all the time. I am not dumb I am college educated and it absolutly kills me. Mom said to forgive her cause she is old. I am too the point that if she continues to openly disrespect me by going over my head, then she does not need to be in life. Am i wrong? It truely hurts she does thiss all the tim

I have a good friend Jennifer who has a very bad habbit of overextending herself trying to do nice things. She has said this is how she gets her worth. Anyway she has volunteered to pick up ten children from school take them to church feed them and take them home. Two trips to pick them up, two trips to take them to church and when she takes them to their houses they dont live in same houses. She asked me to help by watching kids that she is not picking up or taking home at time. was there from around twelve in afternoone to ten at night. . This is too much for her I think and i feel like i should not enable her by helping her do something out of quilt cause she is a good friend that in the end i think is detrimental to her. I feel she is being used by parents who should have told her NO, this is too much. What do yall think. I also think she takes too much on for herself thinking people will help her cause they owe her or wont say no to her. which i think is wrong for her to do