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My GF of 2 years and I just broke up. She's 5'7" and 260 pounds. I am 5'7" 155 pounds. I fell in love with her personality and joy we had together. Now that the vibe is not there anymore and she doesn't seem to be the one I fell in love with anymore. I broke up with her and she blames me for dumping her because she's a big woman. I killed my self explaining to her that her size has nothing to do with it but she doesn't wanna hear it. What can I do or say?

When does a person become described as fat or obese?

Let's say 5'7 girl (I know somebody like that thats why I am asking)

Thanks for your feedbacks.

I had skinny GF, short ones tall ones and a fat one. So I m not shallow because I always looked at a person beyond their bodies. But my last experience with the big one (5'7 - 270lb) was not so great. Yes we laughed and joked and all but when I look at all the fat hanging from her belly, thighs, arms, stretch marks, shrunken skin, etc. I wonder if a weigh loss pgrm would even be helpful.

Las tsummer I went out with a close friend of mine I have known for 23 years (i m 28) and she's your typical A- girl where everything in her body just fits. We went out to the lake for a whole day and I looked at her and compared to what I see everyday at home and I decided that I 've had my share of the fat that I don't carry... then our relationship started going down hill and we broke up.

Plz dont call me shallow cuz I m not. Would you buy pants you think won't fit you? Would you buy a car with an ugly design? Of course not and it's the same here! Am I right or wrong?

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No more gov docs in 2 languages will save us millions in paper in and ink... any thoughts?

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Some argue that because they're arrogant? I ask have you been to Toronto? It's the crown of arrogance!

Also, if they're that stupid and ignorant, don't you think that it is very impressive that a bunch of 'idiots' formed the greatest superpower of all times?

What do you think will happen from now on

1- Will it be easier for Quebec to seperate (Y/ N/ Why)

2- Should other large groups be recognized as nations too i.e. Amerindians, Acadians or the NF Landers (we have to agree they're different that the rest of us?

3- How stable do you think the country will be?

Would you buy a cool Ipod skin that offers free iTunes download?

My question is would the iTunes download freebe be a factor in your decision making? (Please answer honestly as I need lots of feed back thanks)

Because of gloablization and races mixing all over the world, do you think that at one point in time we will all be one color (i.e. Beige) and speak one language (i.e. Chinglish <-- Version of Chinese and English)

English and French are the official languages of Canada because of the two main nations that discovered Canada some hundred years ago. But now that French is no longer the 2nd most spoken language in the country, wouldn't it make sense to just drop it for the current 2nd most?