Mistress Antigone

My boyfriend and I took a title loan out on our fully paid off SUV. We pay interest only every two weeks, with a balloon payment at the end of six months. Last week my boyfriend got pulled over and the Phoenix (AZ) police impounded his car. Because the title loan company has a lien on our car, they were contacted, and they paid to get the car from the impound lot. Now they're trying to say that we have to pay them every cent plus a bunch of extra fees totaling approx $1,900 (the loan was for $1,000 btw)-and they want us to pay it NOW or they're threatening to keep the vehicle. We are not behind on our payments; the next payment of $67 is due Friday. We haven't defaulted on the loan, but I know these companies have tons of ways they work around state laws and loopholes. We are in Maricopa County, Arizona. Does anyone know if the loan company is in the right here? Thank you.

My father was a college student when I was born, and my mother was nearly a decade older than him. He denied paternity, but does (or at least did) know that I am his. He also knows that my mom would never contact him, so he probably never even told his wife or two children about me. I just found them on facebook, but am unsure of what to do... I also found my father's home phone number. Should I contact any of them? And if so, who? My siblings or my father?

How would you answer this question? Or having one pair of shoes in 5 colors...